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GUIDE TO FINDING THE RIGHT BRA

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When I was starting on this topic I right away remembered Camilla Morton, the famous lady behind ‘How to Walk in High Heels’, she once said that ‘underwear is like men: you have your top end, your dependables and your trash. It is sod’s law – lawrus sodimus – that the one time you can’t find a matching set of bra and knickers, or you chance it and go out in your granny knickers, will be the night they end up on show.’Some women actually just don’t care about this intimate in small and covert place, but I tell you, finding the right and perfectly fitted bra is like finding and settling on your top end man, dependable and most often, ain’t the  trashy one.


Balconette type of bra

Now here’s your guide to finding the right bra: 

Know your bra numbers and letters 

Sometimes we can’t find the right fit because we don’t know our right size. The under-bust measurement is the number sequence we see in that little piece of plastic or cloth tucked somewhere in the bra, it is represented by 10/32, 12/34, 14/36 and so on. The bust or the cup size is represented by the letter, so you can see there A, B, C, D and so forth. The bigger your bust, the higher the letter. I’m size 14 with an under bust measurement of 36, and has a cup size of B, so I find bra that has 36B printed on it. You can start finding yours at My Curves & Me, they have the most awesome collection of lingerie set perfect for your personality.

To get your correct band size, wrap a tape measure around your ribcage right below your breast, when you get your figures add 3 inches to that number, that’s how you get your comfortable band size. To get your cup size, measure around the fullest size of your breast. Each inch difference between this and your band size is your cup size. 1 inch difference means you’re cup A, 2 inches difference means you’re cup B and so on and so forth. Anything lower than an inch then you’re cup AA. 

To pad or not to pad 

I recently have bought a new bra I can use for travel, I was looking for something unpadded so as not to occupy so much space in my luggage but to my surprise almost all of what’s on display has one. Well, padded bras are perfectly good for support and protection. Busts look good with pads on, unless you had yours done in perfect shape then that would be an exception. Unpadded ones don’t look so good especially when you’re flat breasted, while it sends out a false promise of full breast, what’s important is your front looks good on it. Just note about proportions and the aesthetics of it. Padded ones normally come with wire right below the pad line, an innovation to fully support your breast especially when you’re cup size is scaling up. So to check whether it works well, try on the item, once the hook and eyes are tucked, bend over and wiggle your breast into the cup, I think you’ll know it from there whether its supports you or not. 

The Strap 

I don’t have a well-endowed breast, so I always choose the balconettle style of bra, those that have low cut and straight designs across the breast. These types of bra come with detachable straps, they can also double as strapless support whenever you wear tube dress or halter tops. You can also play around with other fancy straps that come in various designs. Full breasted women should always consider the thickness of the strap; thin straps can cause pain in the shoulder and can cause bra mishaps along the way. 

Colors and designs 

I’m no adventurous when it comes to bra colors and fancy designs, I always stick to the basic color that is nude , it maybe boring but it’s the safest I can think. Well, our choices of designs and colors always is a reflection of our personality, so go and try on, but always remember the basics of it. 

Lastly, a good bra is an investment, they may be expensive but in the long run the price may be forgotten by the quality and comfort will always be remembered.

BUY DISCOUNTED PERFUMES ONLINE

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Nothing makes a woman feel better than a nice, sexy smelling perfume. However, some of these perfumes cost hundreds, and even up to thousands of dollars. For the everyday woman, this is too expensive. This is why many women consider buying discount perfumes. Most discount perfumes are sold for under $20. Depending on where you are looking, you can get some perfumes for almost free! Consider the magazines that offer samples inside their advertisements. Of course, the samples will not last forever, but they will leave you smelling very nice for several hours. So, where can people go to get good discount perfume? That all depends on their shopping likes and dislikes. If the person enjoys shopping online, they can easily find many auction sites and perfume discount websites to use.
BLACK by Kenneth Cole

There are many third-party websites that sell discount perfume as well. If a person feels uncomfortable shopping online, they can get discounted perfume at some of the brick-and-mortar stores. Some of the places that sell merchandise to military personnel tend to carry discounted perfumes. If you are part of the military or have a relative who is in the military, go to one of these stores by visiting the local base. Another place you might find discount perfumes is at department stores. 

Department stores offer discount perfumes for everyone, and they offer great discounts during the holiday season or when they are going out of business. Never get caught up in the hype of thinking you have to spend a load of money to get a nice perfume. With the discount perfumes, you get the same value as the expensive brand perfumes without having to spend a lot of money. Do a bit of research and know where to go to buy these discount perfumes.

UNBOXING MY FIRST BDJ BOX : ONE FUN, FRESH, FIERCE AND HAPPY BELLA HERE

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I’ve been reading a lot of blog post about unboxing BDJ Boxes but I never really cared until a blogging friend prodded me to. So, for the first time I subscribed to a box for the month of May. I actually have no sense of comparison with other previous boxes since this is my first time, but looking at the box for the first time, I say the pink and gray combo is just elegantly paired.

The items were wrapped in a parchment paper with pink confetti twists in it, how fun. As I slowly peel off the pink sticker that trussed it together, I got giddy thinking … Wow! A suffragette finally gave in and became a beauty buff. I was surprised further seeing how ample I got in this box with that meager amount I paid. It’s super sulit.’



Here’s everything that’s in the box …



THE FUN PART OF THE BOX
 
The box came with 4 variants of RALPH LAUREN Women in sample sizes. 1 [Sporty], 2 [Sensual], 3 [Free-Spirited], 4[Stylish]. Full size at 100 ml of this perfume costs actually around P4,300. So having a small amount to try on is making life easy to eventually decide which scent to pick.


Along with the samples are Rustan's Department Store's discount gift cards of P1,000 off in case I decide to buy. I say, super mark down!



THE FRESH PART OF THE BOX

I can't contain myself wowing on these goodies....


The box came with Full size (100ml) Garnier Light Intensive Brightening Scrub, Sample sizes (20ml) of Garnier Light Complete Anti-action whitening cream and Garnier Light Overnight Whitening Peeling Cream. 


I've been thinking of scoring this baby, Garnier Pure Active Anti-Imperfections Cooling Roll-On,  the last time I was at SM, but for some reasons I returned it back to the shelf and picked the epilator instead. When I found it at the box, I sighed in awe and said, Lord, again, I'll believe in the idea that everything happen for a reason, this cost a little more than P200 pesos at SM, and having this in the box is just beyond awesome.


Another beauty must have in the box are two variants of Garnier MASKS, Light and Oil Clear, I haven't tried this product yet, so it's my chance to get beautified by these.



NOW, FOR THE FIERCE PART OF THE BOX

Humaygad, these babies simply saved my three-month beauty essentials.


It came with MAYBELLINE COLORSENSATIONAL LASTING Lipstick [#235, Warm Me Up], I have bought one before we left for vacation and it was P399.00. It also has MAYBELLINE Baby Lips Color Lip Balm. It got swooned immediately by my daughter, fine! My daughter of 9 is also into these beauty gaga thing, what can I do, she's seeing her mom on the beauty counters often. So anak, tara!


I've been lusting on this MAYBELLINE Eye Studio Lumineyes eyeshadow palette, especially this color combo, but I held back since my previous buy of different brand is still good as new ... and having this in the box as a surprise, is just Thank you Lord!


Another beauty must have to complete that fierce look is this MAYBELLINE Hyper Curl Volume Express Waterproof Mascara, I remember asking the sales lady one time how much this mascara cost and she said it's P250.00. I'm using other brand of mascara and this is the first time I'll gonna use this, can't wait to try.


And to finish off that fierce look is to top it off with MAYBELLINE Clear Smooth All-in-One Shine Free Foundation (sample size), in store, the full size at 9g costs P199.


I'd say ... my first unboxing experience is more than awesome, I'll definitely subscribe for a June BDJ Box and hopefully find new products just perfect for me .... hopefully another lisptick!

If you wish to receive a surprise beauty in a box, subscribe to BDJ Box by visiting their site at http://bdjbox.com/.

HUMAN NATURE'S PERFECT GLOW MINERAL BLUSH REVIEW

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I recently had a chance to attend another Human Nature’s Magalogue turnover at their concept store at Plaza del Carmen in Obrero here in Davao. One of the highlighted products during the event was this Human Nature Perfect Glow Mineral Blush. I’m not really a make-up junkie but I buy and use blushes from time to time and I won’t miss this for the world trying Human Nature’s Perfect Glow Mineral Blush. 

It comes in deep purple plastic, sleek casing, complete with mirror and a small natural brush. This mineral blush line comes in two shades, Pink Bloom and Sun-kissed. For this review, I’m using the latter - Sun-kissed that’s warm-toned in coral matte pink. Perfect Glow Mineral Blush is a pure blend of Vitamin E and preservative-free mineral pigments. It contains no harmful chemicals that can cause irritation and my most-feared, break-out. It contains ‘only the good’ that enhances every woman’s beauty to look healthy and exudes natural glow. 


Compared to its circular-contained predecessors that’s 3.5g, this square-contained is a lot bigger at 4.3 g. it also follows a price upgrade of P295.00. 


I used it for the first time when I attended an evening event, I was in a rush at that time, the brush can pick-up a lot of color though but since it’s kind of small and flimsy I ended up using my kabuki so I can finish my ritual on time. 

I love the matte finish; I have an oily skin so this fits perfectly for me. I also love the idea that the color formulation is buildable, you can start with a light shade then build it depending on the occasion you’re heading and the mood you’re wearing. 

On a casual day, Perfect Glow Mineral Blush can definitely make your cheeks look like you’re out there kissed by the sun. 


I'm wearing Perfect Glow Mineral Blush Sun-Kissed 
In 5 circular strokes

What I do not like? 

  • The brush. It’s small and flimsy. [But if you’re always on the go and does not want extras on your bag, it’ll perfectly do] 

What I like? 

  • It has a dainty packaging, the box color and the print is so picture perfect 
  • Complete compact with mirror and brush 
  • Better color pay-off (If I may borrow those lines) 
  • Contains no harmful, toxic chemicals, dyes or mineral oils and not tested on animals 
  • Matte finish 
  • Buildable color formulation 

Will I Recommend? 

  • Yes. For those who are looking for affordable natural mineral blushes, Human Nature has these for you. 

Will I buy again? 

  • Yes. But because I’m running through a life that’s simple and light, I’ll buy again once I’ll wear this out. 
Human Nature's concept store in Davao is located at 
Unit No.10, Plaza del Carmen,
A. Loyola St., Bo. Obrero, Davao City
Tel. # 2952976

TASTY PUFF: YOUR SMOKE FRESHENER SPRAY

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There's no denying that most people don't like the smell of cigarette smoke at all. In fact, non-smokers find the smell terribly offensive. If you currently smoke, you've likely tried every smoke disguising spray under the sun to try and mask the odor of tobacco smoke. These work for maybe an hour, but then the scent evaporates. A better option for disguising cigarette smoke is Tasty Puff air freshener at Nirvana420.com. This air freshener can be applied directly to your tobacco drop by drop rather than sprayed into the air. The drops contain extremely concentrated scent that actually change the way the smoke you exhale smells. 


You will love the Tasty Puff freshener because in addition to making the tobacco smoke smell more pleasant, it will also make your cigarettes taste better! You can actually purchase fun flavors to try on your tobacco. If you're tired of the same old taste of tobacco, you'll really appreciate the drops. The more drops you use, the stronger the flavor and scent of your cigarettes will be. After using the Tasty Puff freshener, it's highly unlikely that you will ever choose to go back to the same old aerosol smoke masking spray again.

NATURAL FOOT SPA at TRE AQUA FISH SPA

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Tre Aqua Fish Spa is at the second level hall of Robinson's Mall in Dumaguete City. I was shopping for souvenir items then when I accidentally spotted this fish spa, I thought at first it was a mani/pedi bar but I wondered why there were aquariums lining up the floor? So there, spotted - Doctor fishes (Garra rufa) in the tanks.


The lady attendants were so courteous and just like the city's slogan says - they're gentle people and so accommodating. I said, I want to try - they're not piranha looking to me so I shouldn't miss this chance, oh well, they might not really finish off my foot in one sitting, so I thought I would. The other lady attendant then did the ritual in cleaning my feet and was then told to sit and lower my feet in the tank ... 


There's always a first time and fortunately, if I may call it that, it's my first fish spa treat. My pink gosh, I closed my eyes as the fishes swarmed my feet, I thought these fishes would let me leave the spa footless - but it was rather a ticklish feel more than little fidgety pinches.

You have to pay P150/15 minutes of letting the fishes nibble on your dead skin. There are also bigger fishes ready at the other tank, probably if you feel you have thicker cuticles then you can opt to drop your feet there, jeje.

Anyway, the place is nice and homey, the ladies there were so nice to me, it's also a perfect place for chit-chat with a milk tea drinking buddy while some livings down there fed on your dead cells. I've proven my theory wrong, they didn't whack my feet off, lol, they didn't even finish their food. These fishes aren't meant for curative treatments, but as I said a nice place to chill around with friends in a spa under a mall set-up.

Oprah, I’LL MAX OUT MY HUMANITY

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I’m a great fan of this woman and as always get inspired by her stories and her life's journey. Just yesterday she spoke at Harvard University Commencement, hear here what the most influential woman in the world has to say … time well spent with this video. 

There are interesting points she said from politics, to life, to Beyonce etc. but this what struck me most. 

When you learn, teach. 
When you get, give.

MY SKIN ESSENTIALS’ ULTRA WHITE FACIAL SET REVIEW AND GIVEAWAY

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This is a long overdue review, I went on vacation right after these products were handed to me and I thought it would be too taxing doing beauty rituals whilst negotiating life in a bus, in a plane and in unfamiliar places. 

I came back about three weeks ago and started this regimen. My thought is that reviews of products of this sort can’t be rushed, this needs time to see whether it really deliver its promise. To be honest I never heard about this product until a blogging friend posted it on her Facebook wall. 

Eventually I was invited to an event that introduced us this and was given this ULTRA WHITE FACIAL SET to try. I’m a middle-aged mother of three and since anti-aging and whitening creams have come to my consciousness (minus the politics of it), I’ve been jumping from one jar to another finding the right match for my skin. So, I thought I’ll give this set a try. 

My Skin Essentials’ Ultra White Facial Set comes with;
1 Ultra white night perfecting toner (100ml)
1 Ultra night serum (15ml)
1 Ultra white day cream (15g)
1 Ultra white night cream (15g)
1 Ultra white Kojic beauty bar (150g)

My Skin Essentials’ Ultra white night perfecting toner 

In essence, toners work to rebalance your skin’s pH level after you washed it, it also closes the pores in your skin so that the moisturizer you pat in wouldn’t clog it, sometimes we skip this routine because we’re just too lazy to do it, (feeling guilty right here, I do skip this with my previous regimen) and if we pass over this, most often than not the moisturizer residue will set-in in our open pore and in time white heads will start building-up and worst - break out. 

I came home from vacation with several unsightly little bumpy pimples; blame it to dust, late night-outs and irregular deep cleansing. I let go the idea of going to the derma because they’ll just strafe it all together and it’ll irritate it more, I right away thought I had this toner and got into the ritual. 

My Skin Essentials’ Ultra white night perfecting toner

First thing very notable is that it has a refreshing fruity smell and a yellow liquid, believe me, in just three days of night and day religious application, my pimples gone dry leaving no trace of pimple marks at all, the fruit distillate alcohol contained in this bottle really did a good job. It has a mild formulation and that throughout the time I was using it I didn’t notice any horrid peel offs or unsightly sheddings at all, only that it stings – but we were warned about this during the product presentation – so the solution: just have a fan handy. 

I also love the deep cleansing ability of this toner, I use a 10x magnifying mirror to test whether it can really strip off shallow rooted white heads and the result is pleasing. In just three weeks, it lived up to its promise, it radiantly brightens my skin, my pimple marks were gone, it softens my patchy discolorations and it makes my pores noticeably less noticeable. This toner contains no Parabens and Hydroquinone so you don’t have to worry about endangering your skin’s health whilst beautifying and whitening. 

What I don’t like?
-stinging sensation
-packaging. Maybe a more elegant bottle in the future.

What I like?
-fruity and refreshing scent
-contains no Parabens and Hydroquinone
-it’s pimple drying
-its deep cleansing
-no abrupt peel-offs unlike products with Hydroquinone
-lived up to its promise of fairer, firmer and radiant skin

My Skin Essentials’ Ultra night serum 

Skin Science says that our skin cells’ clock gene works efficiently well during the time we’re asleep at night, it naturally renew and replenish our skin’s lipids. Night Serum works to help stimulate skin cellular renewal. I deem this theory very valid, hence, my fascination with night serums, sometimes I don’t even use moisturizer - just this. I’m using a Korean brand prior to testing My Skin Essentials’ Ultra Night Serum and I must say the latter is lighter and ultimately non-greasy. 

My Skin Essentials’ Ultra night serum

As you can see the liquid is translucent and light in consistency, this makes it very easy to gently skim the serum onto your skin, leave it few minutes more and you can feel your skin gets plumper and suppler. The morning feel is even nicer – firmer, tighter skin. 

What I don’t like?
-I’m a great fan of night serums and 15ml is just too small a bottle for me.
-again, packaging, maybe a more elegant bottle in the future.

What I like?
-Light and easy to skim consistency
-refreshing fruity scent
-non greasy

My Skin Essentials’ Ultra white day cream 

This cream comes in French rose, I don’t know if I described the color right, but it’s definitely in a family of pink.

My Skin Essentials’ Ultra white day cream

Again, the very noticeable strength of this cream is its fruity scent. A pea sized cream can already cover your whole face. I really like creams that are not heavy and sticky and this one is just perfect. It get’s absorbed immediately without slimy residue left on your skin, I so like the after-effect feel – my skin feels supple, powdery and velvety. If you’re in a rush catching up your day, topping it up with your staple compact will already do. The cream is already packed with SPF 45 so don’t have to use another cream for sun cover. 

I probably have tried all the creams there are carried by Watsons, not to mention Japanese and Korean creams that are so accessible these days and I’ve maintained a jar or two that I can say a match with my skin type, My Skin Essentials’ Ultra white day cream is a very welcome addition. Thanks to my genes, I’m blessed with a not so sensitive skin, but I’m so prone to milia and my most hated –breakout, believe me, this cream is a gem as it's non pore clogging and has slowly stripped off my discolorations. 

Speaking from personal experience, three days of successive use of a certain facial cream is actually enough to let you see little lumps forming underneath your skin if and when the cream doesn’t suit your skin type. But with My Skin Essentials’ Ultra white day cream, three weeks is already a long time to have me skipped visiting my derma, very remarkable. 

My Skin Essentials’ Ultra white night cream 

The night cream comes in ivoryish color.
 
My Skin Essentials’ Ultra white night cream

Unlike her sister ‘day cream’ that is lighter in terms of consistency, the night cream is creamier, but what is so surprising is that as you gently work with the cream on your face it gets absorb immediately, leave it like few minutes more and you can already go to bed without worries of smudging your pillow. The tight and supple after-feel is what I really like, amazing! 

The fact that this cream does its job so well and on top of that does not clog my pores is an ultimate yes for me. 

What I don’t like about the two creams? 

-again, the packaging. It would be much convenient if it’s placed in an easy-squeezy tube, also for hygienic purposes. Sometimes when the jar goes upside-down in my bag, the cream messes up the brim, it comes with a jar top cover though, but thing is the cream gums the cover and I don’t like it.  

Anyway, in all honesty, the product itself is perfectly fantastic it’s actually enough to say – who cares about the package. 

And what I like about the two creams? 
-great fruity smell 
-they’re both non pore clogging 
-contains no Parabens and Hydroquinone 
-both aren’t too heavy or too sticky, non greasy 
-does not leave residue on your skin 
-true to its promise 

I’m happy I’ve tried their product. It’s made of natural ingredients that truly deliver its promise. It does not contain Parabens and Hydroquinone that are known to cause harm to humans. Using this set in proper and religious manner will definitely leave your skin brighter, radiant, firmer and healthier. 

Will I buy this again? Definitely! 
Will I recommend this? Absolutely! 

As a matter of fact, I’m giving away a set of ULTRA WHITE FACIAL SET for you to try. Good Luck ladies and get prettified naturally. 


MY SKIN ESSENTIALS’ ULTRA WHITE FACIAL SET GIVEAWAY

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Hi there ladies, Woman Elan Vital has just found an amazing beauty product - MY SKIN ESSENTIALS, I tried it, you can read MY SKIN ESSENTIALS’ ULTRA WHITE FACIAL SET REVIEW here and beyond doubt, I liked it, hence, I’m sharing the experience by giving away one (1) My Skin Essentials’ Ultra White Facial Set. 

My Skin Essentials’ Ultra White Facial Set 
1 Ultra white night perfecting toner (100ml) 
1 Ultra night serum (15ml) 
1 Ultra white day cream (15g) 
1 Ultra white night cream (15g) 
1 Ultra white Kojic beauty bar (150g) 



Please do the simple tasks on the rafflecopter to get you a chance to win. This giveaway runs until June 24, 2013, 12MN. Ships to Philippine residents only. If you're abroad and lucky to have won, I'll gladly send the package to relatives of your choice anywhere in the Phils.

Good Luck! a Rafflecopter giveaway

WHATEVER HAPPENED TO MY ELAN VITAL?

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There is a mighty power in your heart. 
To experience this power firsthand, 
the next time you are in a conversation with somebody, 
imagine that your words are coming from your heart, rather than your mind. 
While speaking, stay focused on you words coming from your heart. 
As you do this you will feel a wave of utter bliss move through you. 
As you become practiced, 
you will see the effect of your heart on the person you are speaking with. 
The power of your heart will also reach many others 
as nothing can get in the way of its powerful radiation. 
- The Secret


PREGNANCY PLUS STRESS? TRY YOGA!

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How does stress affect a pregnancy? There is disagreement among research results in this area. Instead of letting the confusion add to an already stressful time, consider the basics. 

Studies vary in regard to the source and intensity of the stress. Essentially, where the stress Is less intense, the chance of miscarriage is less. One recent research project looked at the condition of continuous military-political stress, a very intense form of stress. Not surprisingly, a high level of miscarriage was found. 

Another study established a relationship of miscarriage to stress primarily in the first three weeks. The production of cortisol, a stress hormone, interfered with the maternal hormones which are considered necessary for placentation and the transition from embryo to fetal stage. 

PREGNANCY  YOGA

Research which failed to show a correlation between stress and miscarriage involved a less intense form of stress. The normal stresses associated with the changes coming after the birth of a new baby are more in the mother’s control. Threats of military attack, or even of the potential of a killer tornado during tornado season, are not in the control of the mother-to-be. Therefore, the stress is much more intense and harder on the pregnancy. 

Doctors suggest that rather than ignoring potential stresses during pregnancy, mothers-to-be need to find non-pharmacological means of stress reduction and relaxation. Medication for stress is definitely not the answer, since such treatment would result in other negative side effects for the baby. There is one tried-and-true stress reducing therapy - yoga - that has virtually no problematic side effects. 

Not only does yoga have numerous documented health benefits, it incorporates other stress management techniques such as breathing and meditation. It’s always recommended women check first with their doctor; it’s also possible these days to find yoga classes structured just for pregnant women. Such prenatal yoga classes should be taught by one who’s very knowledgeable about yoga and pregnancy. 

Yoga as regular exercise aids in the release of “happy hormones”, or endorphins. These help keep the mother energetic and positive, a great help in coping with the common mood swings of pregnancy. In addition, some of the exercises help to strengthen muscles used in carrying the baby and in delivery. Other exercises help with aches and pains, such as the common back pains associated with pregnancy. When such discomfort is minimized, normal stresses of pregnancy are lessened. 

While yoga helps on the physical level, it might be necessary, under conditions of the more intense stress, for the mothers to receive counseling and/or help from a support group. 

Today’s high tech world provides other aids for expectant moms that help to reduce stress. All kinds of mobile apps exist to answer needs of pregnancy. What about apps for finding prenatal yoga classes and other maternity needs as well? With an application creator, a person can even create such an app by himself and tailor it to specific needs. Extra funds - for baby items maybe? - can be earned by running ads on the app. Templates are provided by the conduit app builder which make it much easier to build useful apps. 

Such apps aid in stress-reduction by providing more resources to meet needs. The bottom line seems to be that the body knows on some level whether or not it’s safe for baby to enter its particular world. The more a mom can be helped to control or manage her stress, the safer it will be for the baby.

OFFICIALLY CROSSED: Sylvia Day's Bared to you

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Not until mid 2000 that Sylvia Day made it to the shelves, that's a progressive assignment I yet have to know why. My first Sylvia Day experience was her book The Stranger I Married, I just happened to dust it from BookSale, the blurb was promising so I cashed it out and it turned out that it was one of my best reads back in 2008, from that day forward I’ve grown to love Sylvia Day, I must say she’s one of the brilliant authors of my time that once I get hold of her work, I can let go of the moment Henry Cavill will pass by. 

She released Crossfire Series last year, but I was dang preoccupied with life’s earning circumstance that I forgot I’d be making an hour appointment with Gideon Cross every single day, had he shared his wealth with me probably I could just have to wait for the guava to fall into my mouth, lol. 

Bared to you

Anyway, I’ve followed the brief and pleasurable life of Christian Grey. ELJames has written it enough to get through, probably because culturally I'm no bella practicing BDSM, can't find a grip of this sexual culture but for the sake of learning perspective I can tolerate - reading. Gideon Cross on the other hand was a character written to be reminisced so long as I live, he has his demons but for most part his way of communicating through his sexual exchange with Eva is lightly doable by anyone of his stature, who can't forget the limo exchange. Sylvia Day has a gift to play with words so sinuous you can’t put the book down. More than the graphically written steamy scenes - is how Day put up the story’s development into its right paces you'll bet your pet dogs to get the next in series.

This book was released last year and spoilers, reviews are all over, heck, I’m contemplating on buying Reflected to you, which is the second or skip it and move to Entwined to you, the third in series, haven’t decided yet. 

One thing I’m sure and have decided right after Gideon have growled slightly and attacked Eva with his kisses that banished the shadows and ghosts of their past, somehow – I’m officially Crossed!

EARLY SHOPPING FOR YOUR HALLOWEEN COSTUME

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Time really flies so fast, it seems like it was only yesterday that we celebrated Halloween and here we are again heading towards another year of Hallow's fun and entertainment and if we talk about Halloween we can't let it pass without talking about the characters we will assume to be a stand out in our parties. You don’t want to show same costume you paraded last year, don’t you? And since we still have ample time before we hit the party date, today is the best time scouting for unique Halloween get-up. 

I stumbled on this online page; http://www.spirithalloween.com/decorations while scouting for a costume myself. I thought of going Bohemian this year and I wasn’t disappointed going through their online collection, this site practically has all what make-believers can think of wearing and showing - animated Halloween decoration, sexy costumes, accessories, animatronics, unique party supplies, themed get-up and so much more. Creepy-looking costumes can be an attraction, but I personally prefer sexy themed ones like these … 

Princess of Thieves Adult Womens Costume All Knight Adult Womens Costume

This All-knight Women’s costume comes with matching arm cuffs and boots, it’s a perfect kick-ass costume for those who wants to go evil in medieval. Another personal favorite is this sexy Princess of Thieves 2-piece dress, this bandit costume is made of 100% polyester, it comes with matching red feather plum, a green hat and a brown belt pouch. Perfect cunning camouflaged for those who want to feign bandit bitches.

This online store ships to anywhere around the world so no worries of you not getting dolled up in time for the Halloween. Avoid cramming, cart out your most favorite outfit today!

GET INKED PRETTILY: GET PROS TO DO YOUR TATTOOS

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Angelina Jolie and her new tattoo for Brad
Angelina Jolie and her new tattoo for Brad

If  you're  thinking  about  adding  a  bit  of  ink  to  your  collection  or  getting  your  first  tattoo, you'll  want  to  make  sure  you  find  a  design  that  is  flattering.  You  can  find armband tattoo designs for men at BullsEyeTattoos.com if you're looking for a bit of inspiration. This offers you the chance to pick out your own, personalized tattoo that will look great placed wherever you like it. Many men opt for armband tattoos as a way to show off their arms or to showcase their masculinity. 

Whether you're interested in a tribal tattoo or something more in the realm of science fiction, like a dragon, you'll be able to find something that works for you and your lifestyle. Take your time picking the perfect tattoo. Remember that while getting a tattoo is a huge rush, it's also something that is going to be with you for the rest of your life. Don't forget how important it is to make sure the placement is exactly how you want it and that the colors are the ones you want. If you can't find an artist you feel comfortable with, keep shopping around. Never settle for second best when it comes to getting your perfect tattoo.

HUMAN BRAIN ANALYSIS: MAN VS. WOMAN

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A community I joined on Facebook called Learning Petalsrecently had this article posted and I find this so informative to just keep it for myself, so I'm sharing this.

See here how men analyze things so differently unique from women. Somehow this will give us added information to further understand our counter specie, that for the longest time both has been saying 'I really can't understand what the heck you're up to' ...



1. MULTITASKING:
Women - Multiple process
Women's brains designed to concentrate multiple task at a time.
Women can Watch a TV and Talk over phone and cook.

 
Men - Single Process
Men's brains designed to concentrate only one work at a time. Men can not watch TV and talk over the phone at the same time. they stop the TV while Talking. They can either watch TV or talk over the phone or cook.

2. LANGUAGE: Women can easily learn many languages. But can not find solutions to problems. Men can not easily learn languages, they can easily solve problems. That's why in average a 3 years old girl has three times higher vocabulary than a 3 year old boy.

3. ANALYTICAL SKILLS: Men's brains has a lot of space for handling the analytical process. They can analyze and find the solution for a process and design a map of a building easily. But If a complex map is viewed by women, they can not understand it. Women can not understand the details of a map easily, For them it is just a dump of lines on a paper.

4. CAR DRIVING: While driving a car, mans analytical spaces are used in his brain. He can drive a car fast as possible. If he sees an object at long distance, immediately his brain classifies the object (bus or van or car) direction and speed of the object and he drives accordingly. Where woman take a long time to recognize the object direction/ speed. Mans single process mind stops the audio in the car (if any), then concentrates only on driving.

5. LYING : When men lie to women face to face, they get caught easily. Woman's super natural brain observes facial expression 70%, body language 20% and words coming from the mouth 10%. Men's brain does not have this. Women easily lie to men face to face.
So guys, do not lie face to face.

6. PROBLEMS SOLVING: If a man have a lot of problems, his brain clearly classifies the problems and puts them in individual rooms in the brain and then finds the solution one by one. You can see many guys looking at the sky for a long time. If a woman has a lot of problems, her brain can not classify the problems. she wants some one to hear that. After telling everything to a person she goes happily to bed. She does not worry about the problems being solved or not.

7. WHAT THEY WANT: Men want status, success, solutions, big process, etc... But Women want relationship, friends, family, etc...

8. UNHAPPINESS: If women are unhappy with their relations, they can not concentrate on their work. If men are unhappy with their work, they can not concentrate on the relations.

9. SPEECH: Women use indirect language in speech. But Men use direct language.

10. HANDLING EMOTION: Women talk a lot without thinking. Men act a lot without thinking.

BENEFITS OF DRINKING WATER

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Woman in bikini drinking water

Most of us want to live a healthy lifestyle and have a fit body. Not many of us though get really serious about it and take steps such as going on a diet and exercise daily. I have been telling myself to get fit but sometimes I forget my goals when I become busy with work, motherhood and all tasks that come in between. Though I might not be religiously doing exercise or eat healthy foods I still keep a few healthy habits in mind. One of this is drinking sufficient amount of water. We have been told since we were little to drink at least eight glasses of water daily. Water means solely water without additives or in the form of juice or teas, just pure unadulterated water. But even this simple task is sometimes not done. Maybe knowing the any benefits of drinking water will inspire us. 

Drinking Water Helps Balance Our Body Fluids 

Our body is made up of 60% water and water helps in maintaining the balance of the body fluids. Drinking water fulfills the essential requirement of water our body demands. The functions of the fluids in our body include creation of saliva, circulation, digestion and transportation of nutrients. 

Drinking Water can Help You Lose Weight 

Yes this is true because water helps in suppressing your appetite. Drinking water before meal makes you fill full so you don’t eat as much. It also helps in burning stored fats. Drinking water helps put metabolism and it flushes toxins from your body and prevents constipation. 

Drinking Water is Good For Your Skin 

We all want to have a radiant and younger looking skin right? Water can help us with that. Of course we all know that bathing with water can clean us from the outside but drinking water can help us more in maintaining our general appearance. Drinking plenty of water moisturizes your skin and even reduces the appearance of wrinkles and fine line. It also helps in combating some skin disorders such as psoriasis, eczema and spots 

Drinking Water Helps in Building Muscles 

Water carries oxygen to the cells of your body which includes the muscles. Drinking plenty of water allows your muscles to work harder and longer before they feel tired thus helping in strengthening and building your muscles. 

Drinking Water Helps Fight Colds and Flu 

Every  time  we  have   colds   or  flu  we  are  advised  to  have “water therapy” which means drink plenty of water. Drinking water helps in maintaining body temperature and plays an important role in boosting our immune system. Now after knowing all these benefits, I’m pretty sure that you will be more encouraged to drink eight glasses a day.

HAVE YOU TRIED INSERTING A MENSTRUAL CUP YET?

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I just came from our school’s curriculum briefing on Women, Health and Environment. We discussed possible subjects that’ll be included in this curriculum. We want it to be engaging and at the same time include topics that keep abreast with the current state of women involving health and environment. We we’re supposed to have just an hour meeting but towards the end we touched on women's menstrual cycle, napkins, tampons and all of these brand pads in the market and surprisingly, our exchanges went out of the usual.

If there’s one aspect of womanhood that blankets this topic it would be a woman’s menstruation. I long have accepted the fact that I’m an order that is designed to endure at least 40 years in my lifetime - a three-day period in a month changing pads and washing my private part clean with what TVCs recommended best for heavy days [though I read labels too] have a pack of pad included in my weekly grocery list - all these hemmed in a period called menstruation. 



According to study, an average woman can use at least 17,000 pieces of pads in her entire life’s menstrual phase and all of these pads are thrown back to the environment, not to mention the issues on health and ethical viewpoint involving substances used to manufacture these pads, some pads though are made from natural grade elements but you can’t just pack cotton, sell it and tuck it in your undies just like that, they’ve undergone industrial processes that involves by now a lot of chemicals in which to be honest they’re the hardest to pronounce, hence, why would I even care? 

So, as an answer, environment advocates cried to manufacture environment-friendly pads – bamboo fiber pads, cloth pads were encouraged – but the call the convenience is louder than Mother Nature could yell, evidently, grocery stores alone has a whole lane of varied feminine brands that came dainty packed and handy at our most expediency – which as of writing I just realized my preferred brand don’t even have a stamped date when was it manufactured and until when can I possibly be safe using it. 

In an effort to somehow address this, a product innovation called menstrual cup is now available for inserting, yes, that’s how it works – you have to insert it right through your opening. This little silicon cup, as the name suggest works like a cup that catches your menstrual flow right inside you. You’ll have to have a good calculations of your flow possibilities as to when the cup is full [but not necessarily] and is ready for pulling to drain it, wash it and insert it again …. gross…. Yeah, that’s what I feel about this. The design, that looks like a little gummy funnel to me, allows the user to do Mother Nature a huge favor because according to the manufacturer, this silicon, gel-like cup can be re-used up to ten years … wow, that’s a lot of pads save out of the environ. 


I found this video on how a menstrual cup should be inserted, [there are a lot at Youtube actually] and to tell you, this is a serious matter that involve frankly women’s health and we still can’t find researches or articles pointing to the side-effects of this cup.  I too find it too taxing to insert.

But our serious meeting went comedic when the men in the group read out loud the comments on this video and made their ‘men’s POV’, the crazy yet realistic way. 

We ended our meeting with one male teacher commenting ... ‘Thank you Mother Nature for creating me male, at least I’m inserting my silicon from the outside and not poking it inside, hay, kayo talagang mga babae, kung ano-ano ang pinapasok nyo dyan, mamaya di na mapull-out yan, paano na?’ 

Yeah, you should be and make sure you scored the latest delivery without the pin holes on it, or ‘buhay kang bata ka and yes, paano nga kung di na ma pull-out yung cup? Scary!

[image from  http://menstrualcups.files.wordpress.com/2009/07/ww-clothpads-org_0709_cupline4.jpg]

HIGH PERFORMANCE NATURAL MAKE-UP BY TARTE

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Studies show that an average woman applies about 500 chemicals in her grooming and make-up routine everyday. I’m not going to the office today and will stay home for the day, so I skipped my BB cream, my blush on, my concealer, my sun block, my lipstick and my compact powder. Let’s say I passed over at least 300 chemicals today. Women may not be conscious about it, but the moment they shampoo, they dab lipstick, color their nails, and do any other rituals that necessitate substance for beauty enhancement, they’re actually exposing themselves to potentially harmful chemicals. 

Over the years there have been studies that a lot of these cosmetics products contain prospective hazardous substances and the overwhelming truth about this $60billion cosmetics industry is that they’re the least regulated. 

This ugly reality about beauty products has raised awareness and called on women health advocates to act on this matter. The trade-off is so immense to ignore that many women like Maureen Kelly, The CEO and Founder of Tarte, a self-confessed make-up enthusiast herself stepped in to find alternatives to address this cosmetics-related health threat, consequently, her eco-friendly, organic and natural cosmetics came into play.

Today, I’m  one  of  those  lucky  women  who have reaped the fruits of this endeavor, we can now buy Tarte cosmetics products that are not only effective and chic but glamorous and healthy, not to mention cruelty-free and furthers environmental sustainability as well. 

Tarte is one company whose beauty philosophy is anchored upon this environmental idea that venerates Mother Nature and all of the women that represent it. All of their beauty products are sourced and made out pure natural ingredients that are not harmful to women’s health, it’s … 

ALWAYS FORMULATED WITHOUT: 
parabens, mineral oil, phthalates , triclosan, sodium lauryl sulfate, gluten 

Tarte carries a wide-range of natural beauty products– for lips, cheeks, eyes, skin care and every woman’s must-have,beauty brushes and tools. 

Often natural and organic cosmetics are priced outrageously, but you’ll be surprised to know that other than the high-performance and 12-hour power quality of TARTE, they’re also priced so friendly every woman of different stature can afford to cart-off a set or two. 

I’m somewhat stuck on this notion that budget-friendly cosmetics also comes in a-not-so-nice packages, but TARTE just brushed that ugly misconceptions out of my beauty psyche, TARTE made sure their products are packaged in glittery, glamorously as the women who will use it, they’re simply sensational. 

Tarte cosmetics recently came up with a product line that uses a breakthrough natural ingredient called the  Amazonian clay; this is nature’s perfect natural element that if combined with science and technology lets you wear your make-up longer, truer and better. 

Curious? Head up to http://tartecosmetics.com to try out this natural product today and please don’t forget to share your experience with us.

WHY THIS WOMAN IS PRO RH BILL

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Historical context

Since the dawn of human history women had already been regarded as second class citizens. Biblically, women were made next and out of men, this idea has never been disputed and was accepted without question by women because the Bible said it so. Anthropologically, there are countless ethnographic studies that would support the fact that women play second or the gender category that always take the back-seat in favor of men. Isn’t this a familiar phenomenon in Philippine cultural set-up? Sad to say, I’m at it too. Today, even in the most modern of societies, double standards set for women still vibrantly thrive, in fact, further reinforced. Whether planned or not this discourse has performed an immense influence in the lives of women, history, their life chances, one thing leading to another.
RH Bill
Women, Poverty and Overpopulation

Let’s just put a conservative estimate that Philippine population as of today is 90million, this figure then made the Philippines ranked 12th among the most populous countries in the world.

And since society, culture, religion etc. dictates that women should play support to men, they assume routinely the role of an ideal housewife or SAHM (Stay at home mom) to blogging lingo, which comes with it the ‘tig’ roles, ‘tiga-ere, tigalaba, tiga alaga ng bata, and ‘tig’ etcetera, etcetera. The reproductive job that I knew I have the option not to do, but should because society dictates it so, though I'm not afraid of social sanction, it's the stress brought about by this social stigma that I can't stand about.

And since women are pegged at home they’ve left with no choice but live along with that chunk of bacon their men brought home. Theoretically, this is the ideal thing, the women are left home waiting, tending and keeping the home fire burning, but in reality, the bacon is just overly undersized to distribute among the brood, that is why there are more Avon ladies than the number of soldiers in this country, there are more women who blog to earn than men, there are more women that perform underrated economic measures that are not even counted in the GDP.

Thing is, this picture can be deemed applicable only to women who have earned degrees and has opted to stay at home because again of the above reason. Now, take this circumstance several levels below, women who doesn’t even know how to read and write, been impregnated and endure 12 children and not even a slightest idea what family planning is all about - living in scanty situation, fed on instant noodles and rummaged food on the sidewalks, the husband has gone somewhere to find meager jobs with women left to budget P50 a day for 12 hungry children, isn’t poverty a woman’s face?

The Prolife advocates say it’s not overpopulation that is a problem because we still have aplenty of vast expanse of lands somewhere that are still devoid of people.

Do this 'Prolife' knew that even the highest peak of this island-nation is unavailable? Do these Prolife knew that the greedy, the voracious, the ravenous, the rapacious businessmen had occupied, had grabbed the vast tracks of lands in the mountains and turned them into milking farm or however they've done to take advantage of it? Least they knew it because they’ve lived all their lives in the streets of abundance and profuse resources.

If Prolife can drive away the Consunjis, the Alcantaras and the many more of their kind who occupied thousands of hectares of land to sustain their so-called sustainable economics,  then I can see decongestion.

Morals, Religion and Manny Pacquiao

Let it be known that the fundamental law of this land provides no official religion, sad as it may seem that our right to Suffrage has sent majority of those who occupy the pork barrel seats to be Catholics, but these people should know that they are not making policies for Catholics alone, there are other faithfuls that they should serve and that is what they’re for.

Let it be known too, that there can be other morals, not necessarily of Catholics that serve each individual’s principles, so why do these white robed guys so insistent of pushing in their own morals? I know quiet the answer, if this breakdown happens, Catholic Church would lose power, would lose millions of money from lowly, uneducated women who religiously shoot a dime praying earnestly a life miracle can happen.
Let it be known too, that the voice of Manny Pacquiao does not necessarily represent the voice of every individual in his constituency, a system I disgust to the extreme of my morals.

Men over woman’s body

You can only count with your fingers women involve in body politic, apparent evidence that still this ‘male domination’ concept subsist, though today it's a moving practice, it's still slow a pace.

Women, don’t you realize men are dictating once and again what we’re going to do with our bodies? Hell, yeah. Have I lived in the time of Hypatia; I could have also been striped, skinned and burned alive.But this is the 21st century mate, give women a break, educate them, given them all the informed options there are in this universe, let them live their lives the way they wanted to.

RH Bill, Conspiracy theory

From the point of view of Anti-RH Bill, this would be a policy orchestrated by the Western powers to slow-down if not to halt population in countries with high fertility rates; sadly that includes our beloved country – the Philippines.

The rationale is to drug (the pills, injectables, etc), and to brainwash populace not to reproduce more on the motive of the ill-effects of overpopulation, but according to those who conspire, [few of the reasons why I hate I know how to read] this is done so to diminish the use of resources so that there would be more for West’s consumption. I remember the old Bush once said, 'American lives are non negotiable'. So this RH bill might have been one of those schemes they plan to contain resources, at least we weren’t shelled like that of Iraq and Afghanistan.

Whatever the truth behind this speculated discourse, one thing is certain and it runs on my postmodernistic truth that is - there is a blatant correlation between income, size of family, health of the children that according to Jose Rizal - the would be future of this country and as a matter-of-factly, the disposition of women raising these children.

The West has long been encroaching our sovereignty, what difference does it make to address first this clear and present problem.

RH LAW, now!

GET RID OF UNDER-EYE PUFFINESS WITH JENU ACTIVE-YOUTH EYE TREATMENT

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There  are  many  different  options  to  choose  from  these  days  when  it  comes   to eye wrinkle treatment. Whether you are a person who is always looking for organic options or you like the idea of going in for injections, there is no limit to what can be accomplished when it comes to wrinkle removal. One thing you should try to remember when you are attempting to remove your wrinkles is that not all forms of treatment are created equally. In fact, some treatments for wrinkles come with negative side effects that you will probably want to avoid.


JeNu Active-Youth Eye Treatment

The first thing you should do when you are attempting to get rid of your wrinkles is try to see if you can do it on your own without any help. For example, some people will find that they can at least lower the amount of wrinkles on their bodies by drinking more water throughout the day. Drinking more water is probably not going to be the final cure for your wrinkles, but it is definitely something that you can use to start moving in the right direction. Once you are ready for some real wrinkle treatment, you will then want to move onto ointments and creams. Make sure that you actually do your research on these products because some of them definitely work better than others. As long as you take your time to find what works for you, your wrinkles should eventually become a problem of the past.
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